Why You Should Not Try to Please Everyone

Why You Should Not Try to Please Everyone

Almost everyone has the desire to fit in with the group and to gain approval, but wanting to be liked is not the issue. The problem is that people tend to give up parts of themselves in a failed attempt to please everyone around them. If you can relate to this situation and want to do something about it, this post will help. You will learn that you don't need to please everyone and that being yourself will lead to a much more fulfilling life. 

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Trying to Please Everyone Makes You Look Dishonest

When you go out of your way to please others, most people will know what you are doing but won't say anything. Hiding your true opinions and refusing to stand up for yourself will make others view you as dishonest, and they won't be able to trust you. 

Trying to Please Everyone Destroys Your Confidence

Putting the thoughts and opinions of others before your own sends the message that your perspective does not matter, and following this path will slowly destroy your confidence and self-esteem. The change will happen so gradually that you won't even notice the problem until the damage has been done. 

You Can Never Please Everyone

No matter how hard you try, you won't be able to please everyone you meet. People have different opinions and things for which they look in friendships and romantic relationships. In fact, trying to alter yourself for the sake of other people will turn away those who would like you because of your real personality.

You Will Become Resentful

You might think that hiding your true self to make others happy does not bother you, but you can't keep the act up forever. If you try to remain on the same path, you will become resentful of the people you are trying to please, thinking that they are to blame. 

Make a Positive Change Right Away

If you have put the needs of other people above your own for a long time, making a change won't happen overnight, but you can take small steps in the right direction. Learn to refuse requests when you don't want to fulfill them, and you will be off to a good start. Respectfully disagree with others in conversations to learn how to assert yourself, and you will be moving along the correct path in no time.

Final Thoughts

Be authentic and stop comparing yourself with others. Strive to be the best that you could be - Claim it, Own it and Be it! 

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